Pride is Defiance

So, why do Christians think pride is such a bad thing? I get it—sometimes it feels good to be proud of yourself for doing nice things like volunteering or helping out a neighbor. Does that mean you’re doomed to hell? Aren’t we always telling kids to have self-esteem?

Well, here’s the thing: “self-esteem” isn’t the same as “pride” in the Bible’s eyes. When groups like Focus on the Family talk about self-esteem, they’re usually focusing on kids and teenagers who’ve been through a lot—like abuse or bullying. It’s super important to remind them they matter to God and that they’re valuable just as they are. It’s not about puffing up egos; it’s about healing.

Now, when the Bible talks about pride leading to destruction (Proverbs 16:18), it’s more about arrogance. Think of it as a heads-up about that attitude where you think you can go solo and don’t need God. That’s the kind of pride that leads to all sorts of trouble. Remember when the devil tempted Eve in the Garden of Eden? He was like, “Eat this fruit, and you’ll be like God!” (Genesis 3:5). That’s the kind of mindset that gets us in hot water.

The devil’s the poster child for this whole pride thing. He tried to elevate himself above God and messed things up for everyone. And guess what? People went along with it—not because they were forced, but because they chose to follow that tempting path.

On the flip side, being humble isn’t about beating yourself up or thinking you’re worthless. It’s more about being chill and knowing where you fit in the grand scheme of things. It’s about doing your thing and fulfilling God’s purpose with energy and kindness, even when it’s tough. It’s putting others first instead of just focusing on yourself.

Hey there! Ya You we all have our pride, right? But it really starts to change when we put our trust in the humble Savior. Just own up to that pride, accept His forgiveness, and commit to living for His glory. Don’t be Defiant You got this!